What Is Symbiosexuality? A New Phenomenon That’s Making Experts "Rethink the Nature of Human Attraction"

 A recent study by Seattle University researchers has introduced a new form of sexuality known as "symbiosexuality." Published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, this new concept describes an attraction to the "energy, multidimensionality, and power" shared between people in relationships. Essentially, those who identify as symbiosexual are drawn to the dynamic of an existing couple, feeling a connection to the relationship itself rather than to individuals within it.

Dr. Sally Johnston, an adjunct professor of anthropology and sociology and the study’s lead author, suggests that this finding challenges traditional views on human attraction. "We need to rethink the nature of human attraction and desire as only one-to-one experiences," she noted.

Symbiosexuals find the synergy of a couple's partnership compelling and seek to be part of that dynamic, being enamored with the love between the two individuals. This attraction is described as "greater than the sum of its parts," focusing on the whole relationship rather than just its components.

However, symbiosexuals often face stigma in both monogamous and non-monogamous communities. They are sometimes labeled as "unicorns," a term that can carry negative connotations in non-monogamous circles, referring to individuals who participate sexually but do not engage in other aspects of the relationship.

The study also highlighted that while there are sexual benefits, third parties in such relationships often experience objectification and exclusion. Despite this, Johnston emphasizes that a diverse range of people experience symbiosexual attraction.

The research found that 145 participants reported feeling attracted to couples rather than individuals. Many symbiosexuals identify as extroverted, seek high levels of intimacy, and are less likely to experience jealousy. Some participants, particularly those who are queer, expressed a preference for queer and non-heterosexual couples.

Johnston plans to further explore symbiosexuality to better understand its impact on mental health and relationship satisfaction. "I hope that this work will reduce stigma and broaden our understanding of desire in sexuality studies," she said.